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    5/25/2007

    How to Think

    I have been thinking of blogging for a while, however I have to finish the book I was planning on blogging about.
    On a personal note, I have gotten married since the last time I blogged, to the best person I want to say "we" with. And since we are private, I forsee a situation where this blog becomes less and less personal.
     
    Anyways, I picked up the book, "Why didn't I think of that" by Charles McCoy in a bookstore at the airport in Maui. I wish I could say, I couldn't put it down, however, this book encourages you to put it down and think.
    To summarize, this books exposes all various kinds of way of thinking including - perceptively, delibrately, inaginatively, systematically, intuitively, anticipatively etc. In addition, it confirms my own position that thinking is a delibrate process, a skill that one can get better at.
     
    Below are some key take aways for this book for me, I know it may look/feel like one of those self improvement books, but really, this book is more like a textbook, if you really follow through on the exercises.
     
     
    Summary/Take Aways
     
    THINK PERCEPTIVELY
    Obtain a clear view of reality (see the world the way it is not the way you want it to be)
    Double check perceptions (and assumptions)
    Concentrate on crucial facts
    Ask penetrating questions (precision questioning)
    Study both the forest and the trees (top down and bottoms up thinking)
    Lead with your mind, follow with your heart (passion)
     
    THINK DELIBERATELY
    Deliberate (consciously think)
    Accept responsibility for yout thinking and its result
    Understand before judging
    Focus on diagnosing before attempting the cure (avoid analysis paralysis)
     
    CONTROL THE QUALITY OF YOUR THINKING
    Is it clear?
    Is it accurate?
    Is it comprehensive?
    Does it make sense? (common sense)
    Is it intellectually honest?
     
    THINK SYSTEMATICALLY
    Start with what you know is true (explicit state assumptions)
    Connect it up
    Weigh pros and cons (prudential algebra)
    Consider the odds
    Pursue the critical path
     
    USE YOUR IMAGINATION
    Exercise a vivid imagination
    Imagine courageously
    Imagine your way through adversity, frustration and failure
    Think beyond the bound of conventional wisdom
    Imagine the very best solutions
     
    LISTEN TO YOUR INNER VOICE
    Let intuition do what reason alone cannot
    Learn the "feel" of real intuition
    Trust your intuition
    Beware of false intuition
     
    THINK EMPHATHETICALLY
    Consider what others think and feel
    Discover what motivates others to think,feel and act as they do
    Learn how others view and interprete your words and actions
     
    LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP
    Think the unthinkable
    Expect the unexpected
    Consider the significance and the likelihood of consequences
    Invite and value blistering criticism (from people who really know how to criticize)
     
    (Shola's jara)
     
    12/2/2006

    Back to Basics

    (8) Back to the basics, Let us go back to the Basic (8)
    (8) Back to the basics, Let us go back (8)
     
    My Dad always said, if you know something is missing, go back and fix. I wonder if he knows how hard that is.
    Well I have to come to grips that somethings are missing in my english and arithmetic education and I will need to make some move to fix it.
    Gosh, who knew how hard  parts of speech is - especially verbs. It is one maze of confusing rules. Oh well I have to learn. Interested in knowing how? See my book list.
     
    Education means leading out. When well done, if you are educated about any subject, you start to form your own conclusion and not accepting everthing as gospel.
    10/23/2006

    5 basic elements of success

    In my last blog, I talked about visiting my local library. And one of the things I checked out was the audio book, the millionaires mind - This is an amazing book.
    First, I like audio book in general, because it is like NPR without the ads, or the request for money. The current fund raising drive, had soured me on NPR. Second, it makes traffic somewhat enjoyable.
    The point of this blog, is to share with my readers one of the key nuggets I have gotten so far, which the author calls success factor of American millionaire which are:
    1. Integrity
    2. Discipline
    3. Social skills
    4. Supportive spouse
    5. Hardwork

    I think this is an interesting list, think about it.

    7/8/2006

    Skip a Chapter

    I like to read, however, from time to time, I come across a chapter in an otherwise facsinating book, that I  just can not understand or comprehend what the author is trying to convey.
     
    While in school, I have always felt that these chapters were the result of one of the following situations:
    1) I don't have enough background information to "grok" the subject matter
         i) All subject is built on past knowledge
    2) The author was not very insipired when he/she was writing that particular chapter
    3) The material is just hard - difficult to understand.
     
    The good thing is now, I don't have to study for an exam, so I simply skip the chapter. Why let a bad chapter, keep you from enjoying a perfectly good book :)
     
    This is a good place to mention my Dad's amazing rule for readers that are in school. He said, "If you have to understand something for school or an exam, and it is difficult, read it a hundred times, then leave it alone."
    Good advice, except it is almost impossible to execute, but believe me - it works, that would get you through any examination.
     
    ~S
    6/27/2006

    Economics and The confessions of an economic hit man (EHM)

    First, I need to start with this disclaimer, I am not a conspiracy theorist. This is a very interesting book, essentially the thesis is that there are global business professionals, characterized as economic hit men, whose goal is to perpetrate the economic empired of developed world by convincing development countries of the need for development project financed in a way that they could never paid, thereby putting them into perpetual servitude.
     
    This book put a lot of things into context for me, including:
    1) Why developing countries are in so much debt, it is like they are enslaved
    2) How corrupt leaders have been able to get away with corruption on an international scale
    3) Why the economic prescription of the world bank doesn't seem to work
    4) The whole debt forgiveness process etc.
     
    Given my interest in Economics I intend to start studying more about some of this subject. The thought crossed my mind to look on MIT Opencourseware. Essentially, one can now get a master's degree in economics for free online.
    Hmnnn.. tempting
    5/7/2006

    Confessions of an Economic Hit Man

    I had the opportunity to come across a fascinating book this weekend. Called the confessions of an Economic Hitman. I am not ususally flinched by the ideas of a conspiracy theory of anything of the sort, but elements of this book certainly made me feel uneducated. More importantly it made me curious to find out more about certain things for myself. Including the definition of and the real meaning of GDP and GNP versus the Net Economic Welfare measure and the implication for developmental economics.
     
    I just saw the book at a friend's house and before I left, I read the first 60 pages. I think I will purchase the book for myself. It is quite intriguing and some of the ideas seems quite preposterous. However, it is supposed to be a true story. However, since I haven't read it in its entirety, I can not post a review here. However, I can post a link so go check it out for yourself.
     
    Excertp:
    Confessions of an Economic Hit Man, which many people warned Perkins not ot write, exposes the little known inner workings of a system that fosters globalization and leads to the impoverishment of millions of people across the planet.
     
    5/5/2006

    Buy Books from Moi

    Dear Readers,
     I am going to be posting some awesome book reviews here - hopefully you will want to buy the books, hopefully you will want to buy it from amazon and hopefully you will want to go there from a link on my page. This way I can make some mullah.. how about it? huh what do you say?
     
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    4/18/2006

    Boundaries

    i just read this book called Boundaries by Drs Henry Cloud and John Townsend. This is a very good book with an interesting thesis - which essentially is, you can not control others but yourself. Hence the relationship pains you feel with others is as a result of not having properly defined boundaries.
     
    For a Christian book it sounds particularly secular to me, however I like it a lot and would recommend it to people who are stressed out or worried.
     
    It gells with something that I have learnt recently and blogged about - balance. Setting up boundaries in your relationship is a very good way to achieve balance.
     
    Let's assume, I have a very important relationship that I have boundary issues with, the book explained that the reason for this boundary issue (in some cases) is because  I don't want to loose the relationship with this person. The books suggestion - set up your boundary, make it clear, enumerate the consequences and if the person still chose to violate those boundaries, then you can't help them. Simply mourn the relationship, plug into your support system and move on.
     
    What do you think?
    2/9/2006

    I can learn anything it will take to get to where I want to get

    Last night for the first time in a while, I read a book completely. This is made easy by the way the author writes. The way he wrote most of this book was in short, active voice sentences. This is something I think I could emulate, especially since I am trying to improve my grammar skills.
    The book is: "Manage your time and double your productivity by Brian Tracy
     
    Below are some excerpts that I hgihlight if you dont want to read the book.

     

    "Self discipline is the ability to make yourself do what you should do when you should do it, whether you feel like it or not."

    The most important word in success for you for the rest of your life is the word "Clarity."

    "Decide exactly what it is you want." Most people never do this.  "Determine the price you are going to have to pay to get it and then resolve to pay that price!"

    Seven steps formula - that you can use to set and achieve goals for the rest of your life

    1- Meaningful Specific - decide exactly what you want in each part of your life

    2- Write it down, clearly and in detail

    3- Set a deadline fo ryour goal

    4- Make a list of everything you can think if that you are going to have to do to achieve your goal

    5- Organize your list into a plan

    6- Take action on your plan -do something do anythng, but get busy

    7- Do something every single day in the direction of your most important goal at the time

     

    Your subconscious mind only accepts instruction when they are phrased in the present

     

    The key to doubling your productivity in any area of your work or at any time of your life, is for you to select your most valuable task and then for you to discipline yourself to work on that task until it is complete.

     

    ABCDE Method of Organizing

    With the ABCDE method, you make a list of everything that you have to do before you begin

    An "A" item is something that is very important.

    "B" item is something that you should do but it is not as important as an "A" item. 

     "C" item is something that would be nice to do, but for which there are no consequences at all.

     

    The rule is that you should never do a "B" item when there is an "A" item left undone. You should never do a "C" item when there is a "B" item left undone. You must be very disciplined about this.

     

     "D" item is an item that you delegate or outsource to someone else who can do it pretty much as well as you.

     

     The rule is that you should delegate everything possible to free up more time for you to concentrate on your "A" activities.

     

    "E" stands for Eliminate.

     

    4 categories of tasks

    1. Urgent and Important

    2. Important but not Urgent

    3. Urgent but not Important

    4. Neither urgent not important

     

    Law of forced efficiency

    This law says that, "There is never enough time to do everything but there is always enough time to do the most important things."

     

    4 great questions to increase your efficiency and double your productivity

    1. "What is the highest value use of my time?"
    2. "Why am I on the payroll?"
    3. "What can you and only you do that, if done well, can make a real difference?"
    4. "What is the most valuable use of my time, right now?"

     

    Work at your energy peaks

    One of the most important requirements to high productivity is high levels of physical, mental and emotional energy. All highly productive, highly successful, highly paid people have high levels of energy, sustained over long periods of time.

    To generate and maintain high levels of energy, you need to practice proper eating, proper exercise and proper rest.

     

    You should schedule your most creative and demanding tasks during the time of day when you are at your very best.

     

    Single-Handling with Key Tasks

    The two keys to success are focus and concentration.

    Use travel time productively, the average person is in his/her car 500 to 1000 hours each year. This is equivalent of one to two full time university semesters.

     

    "What one skill, if you developed and did it consistently in an excellent fashion, could have the greatest positive impact on your career?"

     

    Develop a sense of urgency. Develop a fast tempo. Develop a bias for action. Pick up the pace. Do it now!

    Make decisions quickly.

    Practice zero-based thinking continually

    However, the biggest time waster of all is for you to continue to pursue a course of action, a job, a career or a relationship, that is the wrong one for you.

     "Knowing what I now know, would I get into that situation again today?"

    "Do you have the courage and character to deal honestly with your life, as it really is, today?"

     

    Set Clear Posteriorities 

    You have heard of setting priorities. Priorities are tasks that you do more of and sooner. A posteriority, on the other hand, is something that you do less of and later, if at all.

     

    Practice what Peter Drucker calls "Creative Abandonment" with tasks and activities that are no longer as valuable as they were when you first started doing them.

     

    Sometimes the word "No" can be the best time saver of all.

     

    Keep Balance in Your Life

    Remember that in life relationships are everything. Fully 85% of your success in life will come from your happy relationships with other people. Only 15% of your happiness will come from achievements in your work.

    "It is quantity of time at home that counts and quality of time at work."

    Plan every project carefully

    Be intensely action oriented

     

     

     

    10/30/2005

    Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish

    'You've got to find what you love,' Jobs says

    This is the text of the Commencement address by Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, delivered on June 12, 2005.

    I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I've ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That's it. No big deal. Just three stories.

    The first story is about connecting the dots.

    I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out?

    It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife. Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: "We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?" They said: "Of course." My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.

    And 17 years later I did go to college. But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents' savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn't see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn't interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.

    It wasn't all romantic. I didn't have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends' rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example:

    Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn't have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can't capture, and I found it fascinating.

    None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the Mac, its likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.

    Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.

    My second story is about love and loss.

    I was lucky — I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation — the Macintosh — a year earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.

    I really didn't know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down - that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me — I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.

    I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.

    During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I retuned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple's current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.

    I'm pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn't been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith. I'm convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You've got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle.

    My third story is about death.

    When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.

    Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.

    About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn't even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor's code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you'd have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.

    I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I'm fine now.

    This was the closest I've been to facing death, and I hope its the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:

    No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.

    Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

    When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the late 1960's, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great notions.

    Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the words: "Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish." It was their farewell message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I have always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.

    Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.

    Thank you all very much.